**Salsa!!! Salsa is an "unlimited" food because it is SO good for you. I eat it on ALL my grilled meat now as opposed to other condiments that aren't so hot for you (bbq sauce, honey mustard, ketchup, etc.). I LOVE it! It adds the pefect flavor and life to grilled chicken, fish, and my new fave....canned tuna!
Monday, March 26, 2012
A Few More Healthy Eating Tips...
**Salsa!!! Salsa is an "unlimited" food because it is SO good for you. I eat it on ALL my grilled meat now as opposed to other condiments that aren't so hot for you (bbq sauce, honey mustard, ketchup, etc.). I LOVE it! It adds the pefect flavor and life to grilled chicken, fish, and my new fave....canned tuna!
Sunday, March 25, 2012
Sunday Funday: Find a Church, Aldi, & Praying for Your Husband
Monday, March 19, 2012
Happy 41st Anniversary, Mama & Daddy!!!




31 To Be Exact….
Have y’all seen this video?? A friend posted it a few weeks ago and I was able to share it with some of our girls while speaking @ FCA. I LOVE this message….It is such a great reminder for all of us. If you have a young lady in your life, share it with her…
We are so fooled by what society expects us to be, and it is totally opposite of what the Lord desires from us as ladies.
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Our 1st Year of Marriage- What We Learned (Guest Post)
Eat to Lose….Benefits of Eggs….& High Blood Pressure + Strokes
In honor of National Nutrition Month, I found some interesting facts in this month’s Shape and Runner’s World magazines that I wanted to share.
An article in Runner’s World shared these tips about eating to lose weight (or just maintain a healthy lifestyle):
Plan Ahead. Eat Often. Limit Temptations. Don’t Drink Sugar. Veg It Up. Avoid Condiments (hint: try salsa instead!). Make Fiber Your Friend. Keep Decadent Food Away. Practice Long, Slow Eating. Eat Real Food. Pay Attention to Hunger (don’t snack out of habit). Eat at Home.
So simple, right??
There was another article called Sunny Side Up that I LOVED. I absolutely LOVE eggs!! I prefer them boiled and have an aversion to egg yolks, so I eat around 8 boiled egg whites every day. (Just a personal preference about the yolk….the egg yolks actually have some major health benefits!!)
Yes, I know that many eggs sounds outrageous. And yes, we go through 5 dozen eggs every week and a half or so. (We really need a friend who has chickens.) Here are some of the benefits I read in this article that reminded me why I should be okay with eating all those eggs….
1. Eating eggs help you slim down. The protein in eggs is easy for the body to absorb, ad the quality protein in them helps control appetite.
2. Eggs protect your heart. Research shows people who eat eggs are less likely to have cardiac troubles.
3. Eggs fight inflammation. I am ALL about using food as medicine and would much rather consume it through food than ibuprofen or some other type of medicine. Eggs help muscle recovery after a hard workout and have even been known to help fight diabetes and Alzheimer’s.
4. Eggs help us maintain bone strength. They are a natural source of vitamin D….
5. And finally, eating eggs help keep your vision sharp. The yolks contain lutein in a very absorbable form, so it helps prevent vision problems.
And some info about blood pressure and strokes….
Did you know…As many as 73 million Americans have high blood pressure. Of the 1 in every 4 adults with high blood pressure, 31.6 percent are not aware they have it. That’s scary stuff considering people who have high blood pressure have more than half the lifetime risk of having stroke compared to those who consistently have optimal blood pressure of 120/80. Get your blood pressure checked, friends. And if it’s high (and not hereditary), the fastest way to get it under control is through making some healthy diet changes.
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
2 Years Ago Today…Our Engagement Anniversary!
HAPPY SUPER TUESDAY!!
GO VOTE!!!!!!
Today is especially super for us. It was two years ago today that my best friend asked me to be his wife!!! What a sweet day and a special memory that forever changed both of our lives for the better.
I am proud to say that I am more in love with Big Jon today than ever. I am even more proud of the man he is, and so thankful the Lord chose him for me.
We are BLESSED for sure!!
Check out our proposal/engagement story…
Here’s my rendition.
And here is Jonathan's! (It’s the only time Big Jon has blogged….)
Monday, March 5, 2012
Let Your INNER BEAUTY Shine!!!
As I grow older (and hopefully wiser), it is really interesting how my thoughts and perspectives change. It amazes me how differently I see things now than when I was younger.
One area that has really changed is how I see people’s outward appearance. Now, more than ever, I am seeing that beauty is only skin deep.
True beauty comes from within, and it shines through people who are beautiful on the inside.
My mom always told me to “focus on being pretty on the inside,” but I didn’t listen very well. Like most girls/teenagers/women, I have always put a lot of emphasis on my physical appearance because I knew that is what others see and judge. First impression is important, and obviously the first thing people see is your outward appearance. I’m afraid our society is teaching our ladies to be entirely too vain.
More and more I realize that while it is extremely important to take care of yourself , our culture is way too consumed with physical appearance. We are not nearly as concerned with our hearts, our gifts, our personalities, serving, having the fruits of the spirit, and loving others.
I know a young lady who I have always thought was absolutely gorgeous. Really, she is one of the most beautiful girls I know. I wish I could post her picture on here so you could see what I’m talking about, and I have no doubt you would agree with me. She receives a lot of attention for her looks from her family, friends, and the opposite sex. But she is nasty. She has a terrible attitude, quick tongue, foul mouth, is rude, judgmental, and treats people disrespectfully. I know longer see her as the gorgeous girl I once thought she was. Her inner self completely tarnished her outward appearance in my eyes.
In the same sense, there are several people I know who are probably not considered “attractive” by the rest of society, but are absolutely beautiful because of the people they are. One example of this, a face we all recognize, is Mother Teresa. True beauty.
Jennifer Anniston is one of the most beautiful actresses in my opinion. She is gorgeous! Did you know that according to this article, she spends $20,000 a month just to maintain her physical appearance?? Duh! If we spent that much, we would ALL look that good!
It is so important for us to teach our young girls what is truly important. I am not saying to discount outward appearance, because I do believe it is important to take care of yourself and look presentable. I like to look nice. . I believe my body is a temple, and it is important to eat healthy, work out, take care of my skin, etc. I like to dress nice and wear cute accessories. I get my hair highlighted, my eyebrows waxed, and have whitened my teeth. But I also have a solid understanding that it is not the most important aspect of me. My looks do not determine my self-worth; I am more than the way I look on the outside.
As ladies, we need to be a better example to our girls. We need to compliment them more on the person they are and good choices they make than the way they look. We need to beware of judging others based on physical appearance and making too many comments (positive or negative) about the way others look. We need to stop being so critical of our own bodies and looks. We need to teach them not to compare themselves to celebrities or models, as we know all about the power of airbrushing & photo editing tools!
We need to spend more time encouraging them to let their inner beauty shine through, and less time worrying about outward appearance.
We need to remind them where they should find their worth and value. We need to teach them that although men might be attracted to them because of their appearance, a REAL man will fall in love with them because of their heart.
Wanna know what I tell my kids at school and my SS girls is the best/fastest way to make yourself better looking??
Smile. Help somebody in need. Use your manners. Be an encourager. Love others.
Let your INNER BEAUTY shine through.
P.S. Don’t forget to VOTE!! I’m getting spanked right now.
Friday, March 2, 2012
National Nutrition Month!!
Did you know that March is NATIONAL NUTRITION MONTH??
That’s right, friends! What BETTER time to get your diet in check and start eating the right foods?!?! Especially with warmer weather right around the corner, NOW is the time to get started. This is typically the time we all start working out more and making better decisions about what we put into our mouth, so why not make it a LIFESTYLE change this time? Get your friends and family on board. Make it a challenge or competition. It CAN be fun!
We have TONS of excuses why we don’t eat right, but really, there aren’t many things I can think of that are more important than our HEALTH!! There is NO excuse not to take care of yourself.
I truly believe that food can be the best preventative medicine for our body. It’s meant to be fuel, and if used properly, it can help ward off various diseases, illnesses, and even cancer. We just have to make the right choices.
I have written several posts with tips to help “Get Your Plate in Shape,” and have more coming. Check out the “Health & Fitness Junkie” tab in the nav bar because there is a LOT of good info about caffeine, super foods, weight loss tips, working out, why to skip fast food, beating a sugar addiction, etc. Here are a few of my favorite posts regarding nutrition to help you get started (maybe save it for when you have some free time to catch up on some reading):
Breakfast: The Meal of Champions
Go ahead…Start today!!!
Fitness Blogger Award- Wanna Vote for MEEEEEE???
Thank you to the sneaky lil reader who nominated me! :)
Are you a perfectionist?? (And a little about adoption.)
Are you a perfectionist??
I am. I have struggled with this for the majority of my life. I have always wanted to be the BEST at everything I did and have always wanted to please everyone.
I can remember tearing up my papers many times in school and rewriting the whole thing because I didn’t think my (very neat!) handwriting was neat enough. Everything in my room, cabinets, and drawers had a place, and I could tell if anything was out of order. (I still have a few of those OCD tendencies…but that’s a whole different post!). I wanted to be a perfect student, make perfect grades, be the best on my team, be everyone’s friend, etc. I even made my mom redo my ponytails over and over until it was perfect with no bumps. Bless her heart, she did it over every time I asked until I was happy. (See, I HAVE come a long way?!? I live for the messy ponytail now! haha) I put a ton of pressure on myself all the time to be successful and be a high achiever. No one else put that pressure on me. My best was always good enough for everyone else… but me.
It wasn’t until college that I realized that perfectionism is not a “good quality” like I thought it was. It controls your life and makes you miserable when you can’t achieve perfection. I would feel guilt and anxiety if there was an area of my life I didn’t feel like I was perfect, and that is an exhausting way to live. Sometimes I still get overwhelmed and struggle with this, but I usually catch it in time to ask the Lord to help me give it over to Him.
Did you know I was adopted??
Well, I am. And I thank the Lord every.single.day for that. I have no doubt that He plucked me out and put me EXACLTY where He wanted me!!! I have the most loving and accepting family IN THE WORLD. My parents and older siblings have ALWAYS gone above and beyond to make me feel loved and special. I have always felt just as much a part of my family as everyone else. But for some reason, deep down, I think I felt like I still needed to be perfect to be accepted…That I needed to please everyone and do everything right so people would want me. That is NOTHING anyone in my family did wrong; because like I said, I couldn’t have asked for a more perfect family in making me always feel love and accepted. I think it just comes with the territory of being adopted…as silly as that sounds. I mean, my parents CHOSE to have me as their child. They loved me so much and wanted me as part of their family, and I didn’t have to do anything to earn my spot. What more could I ask for?? (By the way, adoption is the perfect picture of God’s grace and love in my opinion. That’s exactly what He wants for us….to “adopt us” as His own children. If you’ve been praying about adoption and have been asking for a sign, THIS IS IT!!)
But still, I allowed perfectionism to rule my life for many years.
I attended a Beth Moore Conference a few years ago, and she made a statement that really stuck out to me. She said perfectionism is a twisted form of self-interest and pride. It is NOT pleasing to the Lord when we try to be perfect. I had never thought of it that way, but it is so true. Even as a perfectionist, life is all about ME, ME, ME. I think perfectionists try to justify by thinking we’re trying to serve others by being the best wife, mother, sister, daughter, friend, employee, etc. But in reality, even though we want to please others, it is ultimately so WE can feel good about OURSELVES. Even in that, we are still striving to attain perfection, and that is not the right heart or intentions.
For example, we shouldn’t desire to serve our husband so we can be the perfect wife. We should desire to serve him out of LOVE for him and obedience to the Lord, and that should be our only intention.
I’ve also realized that perfectionism often roots from some type of insecurity. There is some underlying issue or reason that we don’t feel quite good enough, so we try to compensate by being as perfect as possible. I think identifying the root helped me. (By the way, here are some posts about dealing with insecurity…here and here and here.)
Here’s the real deal though, ladies.
God does NOT call us to be perfect!!
He calls us to love him and love others (Matthew 22:37-39). He calls us to serve others (Galatians 5:13) and share the Gospel (Deuteronomy 13:4 & Matthew 28:19-20). He calls us to be obedient (John 14:15) and to be more like Him, so that others will see Him shining through us (Matthew 5:16). He calls us to be salt and light (Matthew 5:13-16) Our desire to be perfect does NOT come from the Lord.
My goal is no longer “to be perfect;” it is to be Christ-like. I know that I cannot achieve perfectionism and that and I will always fall short. And that’s okay, because I can continue striving to be more like Him with each new day. I will never be perfect, and there is such a freedom in not trying to be.
Happy Friday!!